Happily Married, But Longing For Sex With Other Men
Feeling Desire for Others When In Committed Relationships
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I know I’m not alone. I also know this is not abnormal. But every month, when I am ovulating, I crave hot sex with male friends or former coworkers. People who are not my doting husband.
In the realm of marriage, love knows no bounds. But what happens when the biology longs for more, when desire beckons from unexpected corners of the soul (or in my case, very much expected one time per month for about seven days)? There is this dichotomy where love and lust intertwine in a delicate dance of passion and restraint.
One of my all-time favorite books that explains the biology of sexual desire in a way that is matter of fact is Moody Bitches, which is available in multiple forms on Amazon. I will link this book below - if you are a woman, this is a must read. The audible version is very well done and will have you hooked from start to finish. It explains why we want or feel the need to have sex with new partners.
For years, I've been blessed with a loving marriage, a partnership built on trust, companionship, and unwavering devotion. Yet, amidst the comfort of familiarity, there lies a yearning—a primal urge that stirs within me, especially during certain times of my cycle.
Ovulation, a time of heightened fertility and raw, unbridled desire, unlocks a Pandora's box of longing within me. It's during these fleeting moments that I find myself consumed by the tantalizing allure of forbidden fruit—desires that transcend the confines of monogamy and beckon me towards uncharted territories of exploration.
But make no mistake, my desires are not born out of dissatisfaction or a lack of love for my husband. On the contrary, our bond is stronger than ever, forged through the crucible of a 10-year dry spell that threatened to unravel the fabric of our intimacy. It was a night of reckoning, a moment of awakening, when I made a conscious decision to reclaim my sexuality and redefine the parameters of pleasure within our marriage.
And so, with my husband by my side, we embarked on a journey of sexual rediscovery—a journey fueled by passion, experimentation, and unapologetic desire. Together, we explored the depths of ecstasy, leaving behind the shadows of our past and embracing the intoxicating bliss of the present.
But what of my yearnings for others, you may wonder? My fantasies are not of random encounters or fleeting trysts. Rather, they center around the men I know, colleagues and friends whose presence ignites a spark of arousal within me. Yet, despite the allure of temptation, I remain steadfast in my commitment to my husband, channeling my desires into our shared passion and intimacy.
For me, the urge to explore is not a betrayal of love, but a celebration of it—a testament to the depth of connection and trust that exists between us. And so, as the tides of desire ebb and flow with the rhythm of my cycle, I find solace in the arms of my husband, knowing that our love is unshakeable, our bond unbreakable, and our passion eternal. This is a choice.
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